should black and white attire be requested?

i'm trying to decide
it could be really neat to have black and white retire for guests
just really depends
that would make some awesome pictures though
really classy i think
i want to make sure we can tell who the wedding party is
a thought just occurred to me though
i think that you can tell by the flowers
parents all have corsages/boutineers sp?
then bridesmaids will have bouquets
just a thought...

let me know if you see any fun black and white decor
or a fun accent color for tables as well
i think we decided on this dot tie for the guys
all the groomsmen would wear it with their tuxedos
and the brothers in law would wear it with like a black suit
i attached a picture
it is a geoffrey bean tie some white dots some silver
we found them at like ross and marshalls i think
only have 2 already and will need 8
so if you all can keep your eye out for those it would be great

i think we are going to keep the cake simple
three separate tiers
each cheesecake
we might just do simple cheesecake and have really decorative stands
fondant is an option still
saw a beautiful example that could be really fun
we both decided we don't really like normal cake
so why fake it in the pictures,
we might as well have somthing that we like

brandon picked out some tuxedos he really likes
he is thinking about a white one for him
could be really classy
everyone else in black and white
then he and i will be all in white
it is a calvin klein
i added a photo
i think that is the right one

any way, time for work
love you all
add any ideas that you have

love
lorie